"When
the child recognizes you and smiles, then grows to trust you
and look to you for guidance, it's a beautiful feeling," Gomez
said.
The child
Gomez speaks of is not a family member, a pupil or even a
friend's child. In fact, it's not any one particular child,
but a host of children she has represented as a volunteer
court-appointed advocate.
Gomez volunteers for Child Advocates, a Houston-based
organization that trains individuals to work with children who
have been removed from abusive homes and placed in the foster
care system.
She is one of a small number of Hispanic, bilingual
advocates needed to work with families that speak little or no
English. Child Advocates is currently seeking such volunteers
to serve the large number of Spanish-speaking individuals in
the system.
"In all of my cases so far, the families have been Spanish
speaking. It's important to have someone who can bridge the
gap between the child, the family and the caseworker," Gomez
said.
When Gomez became involved with Child Advocates in 1996, it
was not because she knew of the need for bilingual volunteers.
She had just graduated from college with a business degree
and was interested in giving back to the community. A survivor
of childhood emotional abuse, she knew Child Advocates would
provide an opportunity to do that, but she didn't realize what
else she would gain from the experience.
"Once you start volunteering, you see the need, and you
never want to stop. I never thought I'd get this involved, but
now it's something I see myself doing for the rest of my
life," Gomez said.
The process of becoming an advocate begins with a week of
intensive training, followed by a thorough background check
and interview.
Advocates are told the history of a child's case and then
given the option to accept the case or not. Some instances
involve emergency cases, in which the child is in a troubling
situation and needs more support from his or her advocate.
Other cases entail a lesser but just as important level of
commitment from the advocate, as Gomez has learned in her
eight years' experience.
The advocate may be responsible for reading a child's case
to Child Protective Services, accompanying the child to court
dates, visiting with the child to learn about his or her needs
and speaking with others who have close contact with the
child.
"It takes a bit of investigative work sometimes. You might
talk to their teacher, their school counselor or their doctor
to find out how they're doing, because the more information
you have, the better," Gomez said.
The advocate may also make recommendations in court, and
those recommendations may sometimes disagree with what the
child's caseworker suggests.
The idea of appearing in court and handling as sensitive a
subject as child abuse once frightened Gomez, and she is not
surprised when others tell her they are hesitant to become
advocates for that reason.
However, she maintains that the training provided by Child
Advocates is sufficient to equip a volunteer with the
knowledge he or she needs.
"And even when you have questions, you have a team of
professionals there to guide you," she said. "People are
afraid, but someone has to help. If we all let our fears take
over, nobody will be there for these children."
Over the past several years, Gomez has learned that her
role not only as an advocate, but as a bilingual Hispanic
individual, has created a sense of stability for the children
she works with.
She believes a child benefits from having an advocate who
is sensitive to and understands his or her culture, and the
Houston area's large Hispanic population has created a need
for more volunteers like Gomez.
However, volunteers from all backgrounds are needed and
appreciated, as Child Advocates serves about 1,500 children
every year.
An advocate works with one family at a time, although some
families are assigned two advocates. Gomez said the majority
of cases she has worked on lasted no more than one year.
Her commitment to the program is about 10 hours a month,
but she contends there are opportunities to devote more or
less time in various capacities.
"If you can't be an advocate, you can volunteer in other
ways. There is fund raising that needs to be done, and help is
always needed for the different events," Gomez said.
Individuals who are interested in becoming Child Advocates
can register for the upcoming Advocacy University training
session. Individual orientation sessions will take place
Tuesday through Thursday; Advocacy University begins Saturday.
Another Advocacy University will follow in April, with
orientation dates in February and March. For more information
or to register, call (713) 529-1396 ext. 242.